October 16, 2006
Dear Ethan and Ella,
I am trying so hard to stay strong for you. I didn’t sleep a wink last night because I
was in so much pain. My nurse told me
that it was her goal this shift to get me in the delivery room. I feel so conflicted. I am excited to finally meet you but I know
that you still need more time to develop and grow. But I am just in so much pain. I am praying for strength.
I have a whole team of doctors that take care of me. They have one mission – keep me pregnant for
as long as they can so that you can grow.
They have hammered it into my head that every day that I stay pregnant
is four less days that you will be in the NICU.
The last eleven days I have been on an IV of a drug called Magnesium
Sulfate to help slow the contractions.
All the other drugs have lost their effectiveness. I thought I was on the highest dose. When the doctor came to see me this morning
he increased my dose once again. I will
not get to meet you today and I am so sad.
I have never cried or complained to any of my doctors or
nurses the whole time I have been here. Today
I cried. I cried because I was
disappointed. I cried because I was in so much pain. I cried because I was exhausted. I cried because I felt guilty. How selfish of me to want you to be born any
sooner? I begged the doctor to at least
give me something to settle my stomach and help me sleep.
Daddy didn’t even go to work today. He didn’t want to leave my side. I am so glad he stayed. Unfortunately the sleep meds didn’t work on me. Instead of making me sleep they just made me
delirious. I would nod off for a minute
then jolt up and feel like I had to go to the bathroom. By the afternoon I couldn’t even walk without
his help.
Four less days in the NICU…..Four less days in the
NICU…..Four less days in the NICU….
Love,
Mommy
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